"Generally," he wrote, "alcoholics seem to have the same kinds of personalities as everybody else, except more so."
Among traits, he said, "The first is a low frustration tolerance. Alcoholics seem to experience more distress when enduring long-term dysphoria or when tiresome things do not work out quickly. Alcoholics are more impulsive than most. Secondly, alcoholics are more sensitive.
"Alcoholics have a 'low rejection threshold.'"
Don't we know it.
Dr. West, who was a recovering alcoholic himself, died in 2012 at age 98. He also wrote: "Another trait found in excess in alcoholics is a low sense of one's own worth. Then there is isolation. Alcoholics are loners. It is with most difficulty they are able to share innermost thoughts and concerns with anyone.
"Although they may be articulate, charming and very persuasive, they operate behind an armor or shell that keeps the world out. They are afraid of intimacy."
This brings me back to Trump and the subject of an intervention. Much as I think it's needed, I don't see it happening. It's usually the family and close friends who initiate such a drastic step. Melania seems to have accepted her role as wifely enabler, probably with a sweet pre-nup. The two older sons are chips off the same old block and probably fear daddy's wrath. Ivanka, the apple of his eye, obviously does not see herself suffering from his addiction. Should that ever happen, the dynamic could change dramatically.
Which is to say, intervention for America from this First-Family addiction could come from an interested third party, say in the form of a Robert Mueller indictment of Ivanka, or one or both sons. A moment of stark clarity for the Trumps. No cheering crowds. No MAGA hats. Lots of lawyers and legal fees.
"Daddy, turn off the TV. We need to talk ..."
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