A sense of some freedom that comes without a leash or suspicion (unless it's warranted; if it is, we'll talk about that at a later time). (The suspicion, not the leash).
Living
in their own heads and being able to think their own thoughts without being
interrupted with theeternal, unanswerable question, "What are you
thinking?" This applies especially when you are having sex. Trust
me, you really don't want to know what he is thinking about while you are
having sex, which is why he doesn't answer. While he occasionally might be thinking about you while
you are having sex,it is quite possible he is thinking about some
porn he watched while you were getting your nails done, what time the
football game starts and if his equipment is as big and powerful as he
thinks it is.
Did I mention sex?
WHAT (MOST) MEN DON'T LIKE:
Feeling trapped or set up by repeated, circuitous questions. Stop asking him about the same thing from seven years ago when you want to know where he is going this Friday night.
Being pressured to say or do anything that they are not prepared to do.
Feeling controlled.
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