The point is, (if you want to do more ritual) (Adapt these ritual elements to your situation:) Douse the house lights (and hearth-fire). If you are having a Samhain fire outside, light it when the sun sets. (This can be a modest fire.) Bring a stone to place it on a cairn, (breathing into the stone a prayer for the world, a prayer for family and community and a prayer for yourself silent or aloud). tell stories of ancestors while passing around apples to all present. (Remember that ancestors are not just blood-ancestors but all those who lived before us!) As you bite into the apples, while listening to stories (or silence) recognize the miracle of embodiment, being in a body, which the apple represents! To the spirits a body is a wonder and a blessing. The apple is the sweetness of life. Toss the core ritually as an offering to the animals who know all about the transition to Winter. Light a candle from the Samhain fire. You can blow it out but bring it into the house and relight it there. That represents the hearth-fire, the renewed light and warmth for the coming year and the Winter. This is all very propitious and auspicious, doing these very old rituals!!!
PS Even if you only half believe this, I recommend doing it. Trust others' experience. I promise you, spirits, both ancestral and Nature spirits, are very real.
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