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The Wicked Civilisation

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Iftekhar Sayeed
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On September 4, 1987 in Deorala, a village in Rajasthan, 18-year-old Roop Kanwar ‎burned to death on the pyre of her husband Maal Singh. Dressed in bridal finery, Roop ‎Kanwar walked at the head of the funeral procession to the centre of the village and ‎ascended the pyre. The family lit the pyre, aware that she was sitting on it, alive, with ‎hundreds of onlookers watching the proceedings. Relatives fed a thousand people in ‎honour of 'Sati Mata'.‎

On January 31, 2004, all the accused in four criminal cases of glorification of sati were ‎acquitted. They included a former minister, a former IAS officer, an advocate and the ‎president of the Rajput Maha Sabha (http://www.countercurrents.org/gen-‎shukla190304.htm ). ‎

In August 2002, Kuttu Bai, 65, burned to death on her husband's funeral pyre in a village ‎in central India Fifteen people were arrested over the incident, which took place in ‎Madhya Pradesh state. They faced charges of murder and conspiracy and included the ‎woman's two grown-up sons, who apparently did nothing to stop her. ‎

ceremony say they were ‎forced back by the angry crowd. (http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/2180380.stm)‎

Twenty-five sati incidents occurred in the Bundelkand region of Uttar Pradesh in as many ‎years. One of the cases was that of 18-year-old Javitri Devi of Jaari, a small village in ‎Banda district. A temple to her memory was built in 1979 from the money collected in ‎the impoverished village which, according to India Today (November 29, pages 43 - 45), ‎‎"did not even have a dispensary". The temple's priest claimed that on the average around ‎fifteen people came to pay respects, but during Navrati thousands poured in. "Several ‎such sati mandirs and chabutaras dot the region's landscape...." After Rajasthan, it would ‎appear that Bundelkand has the highest number of sati incidents, with three districts alone ‎accounting for more than a dozen. ‎

‎"All this is a part of our tradition and customs," observed Anil Upadhaya, former ‎principal of a degree college and local historian. He defended sati, and berated the ‎government for interfering in "voluntary sati". The educated appear to find nothing ‎repugnant in the act. The people of the area are proud to have had so many satimatas. ‎

Politicians cash in on the practice's popularity. With an eye on the Dalit vote, a local ‎politician demanded that people be allowed to worship the place where Charanshah died ‎and asked the police to "stop interfering in religious faith of the people". ‎

On November 11, 1999, Charanshah, 50, "circumambulated the lit pyre four times, folded ‎her hands and then climbed on to it without screaming or shouting. Before we could rush ‎to rescue her, she was burnt to ashes," said her son, Shishupal. The village turned into a ‎scene of riotous merriment. ‎

In August 2006, a widow, Janakrani, burnt to death on the funeral pyre of her husband ‎Prem Narayan in Sagar district in Tuslipar village in the central state of Madhya Pradesh. ‎Senior Madhya Pradesh police official Shahid Absar told the BBC that early ‎investigations had revealed that she had not been coerced into performing the act ‎‎(http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/south_asia/5273336.stm).

A Different Kind Of Parental Love
In Taiwan, Lin Wen-piao mixed pesticide with yoghurt and milk, and fed the concotion ‎to his two children before taking it himself; he had been diagnosed with cancer three days ‎earlier. Though appalled, the Taiwanese sympathized with the 52-year-old unemployed ‎construction worker in the southern city of Kaohsiung. This was in 2003. ‎

‎"Yet some health experts viewed the deaths as part of a trend. While Taiwan is seeing a ‎rise in family suicide-homicides, such tragedies stopped being oddities long ago in other ‎parts of Asia, notably Japan," notes Associated Press reporter Annie Huang ‎‎(http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2003/12/08/world/main587450.shtml).

Between 1993 and 2003, 78 family suicides were reported in Taiwan. Mental illness ‎plays a role, but more important are long-held East Asian beliefs about parental roles and ‎duties. ‎

In September 2001, a wealthy couple in the central county of Changhua had a large ‎incinerator installed in their villa. They removed their slippers, arranging them neatly ‎outside the incinerator door; they left a note complaining about Taiwan's political ‎instability and expressing a wish to "leave this ugly world behind". Police found ashes ‎and bone fragments from the couple's three children, ages 19 to 24, next to the ‎incinerator. The badly burned bodies of the parents were found inside the furnace. ‎

‎"Many of our parents consider children their own property or subordinates," says Wang ‎Yu-min, an executive at Taiwan's Children Welfare Association. "They will live and die ‎together with the children. It is a different way of showing parental love than in the ‎West." ‎

Mafumi Usui, professor of psychology at Niigata Seiryo University in Japan, notes that ‎Japan has a long history of family suicides, and they are too frequent to make major ‎headlines. So frequent, indeed, that Japan has phrases for them: "Ikka shinju" is when an ‎entire family commits suicide; when a parent kills the children before killing himself, it's ‎called "muri shinju."

Despite democracy appearing in many Asian countries, family suicides are persistent ‎remnants of age-old traditions that required absolute obedience to parents or superiors. ‎

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