My message to the girls and women out there on the topic of birth control, if the boy/man you are with does not have a condom, you are to tell him absolutely no sex. Women of all ages are strong and I know that you can do this. Don’t fall for if I pull out in time, you can’t get pregnant. That is simply not the case. Can you see yourself being put into a situation in which you may seek to abort your baby? If you can’t then the responsibility is on your shoulders to use some form of birth control.
To the men/boys out there who are even thinking of having sex with a woman/girl, if you do not have a condom, quite frankly you are showing little respect for your female partner. Do you really wish to get a call from them saying, “I am pregnant, now what?” Are you ready to be a father or at least hold her hand should she choose to have an abortion? Or will you run? If you run, you are beyond contempt.
I say that because I once paid for a girl friend to have an abortion. She did not know who the father was. It was one of two men. I made damn sure they paid me back. I and another friend escorted her to the clinic and this is going back over twenty-years ago and one of the men came by later on that night with a bottle of wine. He could not bring himself to escort her. He wanted to see how she was and I refused to let him see her, but said, “Hand over your share of the money owed me.” He did so. The other one who also did not escort her also paid me back. To this day, she is still my best friend and will be so for life.
Lastly to the Republican candidates running for president who see themselves as being pro-life, I came to hear your voice when it comes to abortion through my own means not yours and do agree with your stance. Now you must come to hear my call to end the war in Iraq which is also taking the lives of innocent victims and many of them are babies. You must put an end to the use of depleted uranium since it does affect the lives of the unborn. Many Iraqi mothers are terrified in giving birth since the child they will give birth to in many cases will be deformed and often will die. I have seen their pictures. Have you? You say that you are pro-life well damn it, prove it! To continue this war and if you are looking beyond Iraq into Iran, then you are pro-death.
I have seen the photos of dead Iraqi and Lebanese children as I have seen the photos of dead aborted babies and quite frankly, I see absolutely no difference. Is this the best society in general has to offer humanity?
Author’s email address is, xmjmac@optonline.net
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