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May 22, 2013
Advertisers Encouraging Lying, Deception
By Rob Kall
TV commercials and TV sitcoms are celebrating lying and deception, glorifying many of the characteristics of sociopaths. This is bad for our culture.
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"The best stories you'll ever tell start with "don't tell,'" the wise-old-man voiceover says. It's a bold statement, especially in the Internet age. (Facebook pics or it didn't happen.) But apparently--according to the Innocean camp--a subsection of Gen X parents, defined as "Alternadults," have "grown up, but don't necessarily want to grow old." Since growing old means making embarrassing Facebook posts, they're not doing that. Instead, they're making mischief, even when their mild rule breaking includes the kids and a Hyundai Sante Fe.
"Ridiculousness of the term "alternadults" aside, I don't think a good story has ever really started with "don't tell." Cool parents don't care about keeping their black diamond runs and toilet papering a secret, and outside the family it's a phrase that prefaces salacious gossip and abusive situations. I'd rather see an ad in which, after a crazy day of father-son mountain biking, dad says, "Tell mom about the log you jumped over today." Alterna-mom would be stoked."
Perhaps the reason Hyundai and Smirnoff executives feel it's okay to run ads glorifying lying is because television shows, particularly sit-coms are often built upon sociopathic tendencies and behaviors.
I started writing this article after viewing the Smirnoff Ice commercial that was aired during an episode of the Daily Show. After the Daily Show, then the Colbert Show (a show that uses a lot of comedy based on obvious lies by Colbert who is pretending to be a conservative,) was aired on the Comedy channel, the show ALWAYS SUNNY IN PHILADELPHIA ran. Here's the Wikipedia description of that show:
he series follows "The Gang," a group of five depraved underachievers: twins Dennis Reynolds and Deandra "Sweet Dee" Reynolds ; their friends Charlie Kelly , Ronald "Mac" McDonald . From season 2 onwards they are joined by Frank Reynolds , the man who raised Dennis and Dee. The gang run the dilapidated Paddy's Pub, an Irish bar in South Philadelphia . Each member of the gang shows varying degrees of dishonesty, egotism, selfishness, greed, manipulation, pettiness, ignorance, laziness and unethical behavior, and they are often engaged in controversial issues. Episodes usually find them hatching elaborate schemes, conspiring against one another and others for personal gain, vengeance, or simply for the entertainment of watching one another's downfall. They habitually inflict mental, emotional and often physical pain. They regularly use blackmail to manipulate one another and others outside of the group. Their unity is never solid - any of them would quickly dump any one of the others for quick profit or personal gain regardless of the consequences. Everything they do results in competition among themselves and a considerable amount of the show's dialogue involves the characters arguing or yelling over one another. Despite their lack of any discernible success or achievement, the people in the Gang generally maintain high opinions of themselves and display an often obsessive interest in their own reputations and public images. Despite this high sense of self-worth, the Gang often has virtually no sense of shame when attempting to get what they want and often engages in activities which others would find humiliating, disgusting, or even preposterous, such as smoking crack cocaine in order to qualify for welfare, seducing a priest, or hiding naked inside a leather couch in order to spy on someone.
That show description reads like a description of a sociopath. There are too many shows that make heros out of liars and narcissists and frauds. It's no wonder the advertisers jump on the bandwagon. There was a scene in the ALWAYS SUNNY IN PHILADELPHIA show I watched where one of the characters mocked another for criticizing one of their plans to deceive and exploit others. So, the show not only builds its plots based on sociopathic behaviors, it also mocks people who even consider questioning such behavior.
I'm no prude. But these TV shows and ads could be changing our culture in a negative way. At the end of the episode of ALWAYS SUNNY IN PHILADELPHIA pretty much ALL the characters who engaged in lying and fraud end up injured in a car accident. Does that balance out the lying?
Much has been said about America's "soft power" via its arts and entertainment media. These kinds of examples are not good for diplomacy or soft power. They are the kinds of media that make parts of the world hate America.
This article is part of a series of articles on sociopaths and psychopaths, including:
Attacking Psychopaths and Sociopaths from The Bottom and the Bottom-Line Up
One Terrorist, A Million Psychopaths, Eight Million Sociopaths
Patterns of Psychopaths/Sociopaths; The "Psychopathic Bond"
Tamerlane-- Namesake for a Sociopathic Narcissist Mass Murderer?
Podcast:Sociopaths, Anti-Social Disorder-- Interview with The Guy Who Wrote the Book On It
Podcast: Mikhail Lyubansky Varieties of Evil, Varieties of Justice
and check out these tags in the Opednews directory:
Sociopath-Narcissism; Psychopath; Sociopathy ,
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