No matter how much we amass we go immediately in hot pursuit not of happiness, but ... more ... which we believe is happiness, running just to stand still, balanced on the knife edge of failure/success, financial security, fame and power, the "hedonic treadmill" of the American Dream System, capitalism is based on the promise, not the delivery. If we were to achieve we would no longer need to play the game.
Do the math.
Since the 1950s, Americans have twice as many cars houses twice as large eat out three times more their divorces doubled suicides tripled violent crimes quadrupled a million a year drop out of high school diabetes, obesity and depression are epidemic while we are free to pursue our whims and while we are inundated with stuff most Americans feel they don't have enough. And since this makes them feel things are scarce, wall themselves off, especially from the have-nots.
As materialism and misery have multiplied, happiness has plummeted. We spend our lives making and selling things including ourselves, pulling away from "we" because there's no short term gain, like lab rats pushing a lever for another hit of cocaine to acquire things we do not need and neglecting those we do.
Happiness is the absence of striving for it. Happy people have their minds fixed, not on the pursuit of happiness, but a pursuit followed not as a means to an end, but an end in itself. Happiness is a byproduct. By not seeking, we find it. It is a road, not a destination.
The American Dream promises that regardless of circumstances of birth and within the law, anyone can pursue his version of happiness which has been reduced to the pursuit of money. Three of four college students hijacked by capitalism, insist it's "essential" to become "very well off financially."
To feel fully alive you must find and follow that "little voice" which says "This is who I really am."
Capitalism's fetish for individualism is actually a fixation on alienation. From the first moment we're plopped in front of corporate-sponsored children's TV now available 24/7 with a booster shot when we enter school, our square pegs are carved down to fit capitalism's round, cookie cutter holes, caricatures of actual individuals encouraged to develop our marketability rather than our individuality, sell our "selves" for a corporate identity uniform in its conformity supported by a multiplicity of meaningless choices marketed as a means to individuality as we each sit home alone with our TVs -
capitalism's perfect couple
an alienated individual, divided and conquered, alone with the most perfect delivery system for propaganda's hollow promises ever invented.
Authentic individualism skepticism making one's own decisions - happiness - is anathema to capitalism.
Sculptor Henry Moore to poet Donald Hall - "The secret of life is to have something you devote your entire life to, something you bring everything to, every minute of the day for your whole life. And the most important thing is - it must be something you cannot possibly do.
Vi's works appear widely both in print and online. She conducts Poetry Workshops and gives readings in Central New York. Her latest chapbook is "Sine Qua Non Antiques (an Arcanum of History, Geography and Treachery).
is a character feature. There are happy people and there are not. It does not mean that happy people are good ones and those unhappy are not. No connection here.
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Mark Sashine (51 articles, 19 quicklinks, 244 diaries, 3453 comments)
on Monday, February 4, 2008 at 12:11:33 PM
Your beautiful words reminded me of one of my favourite philosophers
Chuang Tzu
"You never find happiness until you stop looking for it. My greatest happiness consists precisely in doing nothing whatever that is calculated to obtain happiness: and this, in the minds of most people, is the worst possible course...
Contentment and well-being at once become possible the moment you cease to act with them in view"
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CasaZaza (6 articles, 0 quicklinks, 3 diaries, 148 comments)
on Monday, February 4, 2008 at 9:20:13 PM
What does one make of this website, then, and the will of thousands who exchange their thoughts here? What of innovation allowing me to share my hope and another to express their fear? What of this simple power to publish, inquire, enlighten and inspire, that our moment might last for an eternity? What of this ability allowing anyone to reach another, anywhere in the world, virtually for free? What good has opened to all humanity?
What of distant new worlds we gaze through an orbitting telescope? What of robots roaming the planets? What of processors whose power uncovers life secrets locked in the human genome?
Seeing valuable things, happiness takes part in truth's unfolding discovery, and leaves sorrow to imperfect understanding that would sooner quit living and give place to misery...
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Tom Chechatka (6 articles, 1 quicklinks, 1 diaries, 51 comments)
on Tuesday, February 5, 2008 at 12:54:46 PM
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