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April 2, 2007 at 00:08:08

Hate By Any Other Name

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Hate By Any Other Name

Patricia Goldsmith

Larry Kramer was one of the very first people to recognize the AIDS epidemic for what it was. While the Reagan administration refused to acknowledge the burgeoning epidemic and gay men didn't want to believe it, Kramer helped found the legendary group ACT-UP, whose motto was Silence=Death.

Twenty years later, Larry Kramer has re-ignited ACT-UP to wake us up to another grim reality we'd rather not face. "The needs are different now. Then it was AIDS, and now" he says, "it is utter sheer hate hurled at us right and left."

As blunt and confrontational as ever, Kramer began an open letter to straight people in the Los Angeles Times with the question, "Why do you hate gay people so much?" Put another way, why do those who claim to hate the sin but love the sinner often seem, instead, to love the hate but hate the h word.

For example, when former NBA player Tim Hardaway came right out and said, "I hate gay people," Concerned Women for America immediately issued a press release condemning not his bigotry but his language:

Hardaway's comments are both unfortunate and inappropriate. They provide political fodder for those who wish to paint all opposition to the homosexual lifestyle as being rooted in "hate." It's important to note that Hardaway's words represent the feelings of Hardaway. His words do not represent the feelings of the vast majority of people opposed to the homosexual agenda. . . . Thousands of former homosexuals have been freed from the homosexual lifestyle through acts of love. Hardaway's comments only serve to foment misperceptions of widespread homosexual "victimhood" which the homosexual lobby has craftily manufactured. [from Matt Barber of Concerned Women for America in a press release dated 2-16-07, as quoted in The Advocate, March 27, 2007, print edition, page 52]

 

It's funny how much "hate" feels like the real thing when you're on the receiving end.

Maintaining an emotional disconnect from the pain they inflict is crucial to the anti-gay project. It's a hard balancing act to pull off, particularly these days, when it seems that the right is running on nothing but fumes and hate. The media seem to think it's enough to ban the use of the word faggot.

By that reckoning, General Peter Pace's recent statement that gays should not be allowed to serve in the military because homosexuality is immoral should be no big deal; after all, he didn't use any naughty words. And yet somehow one feels the hate is there. Former Senator Alan Simpson, Republican from Wyoming, lays it out in a piece for the Washington Post entitled "Bigotry That Hurts Our Military":

According to the Government Accountability Office, more than 300 language experts have been fired under "don't ask, don't tell," including more than 50 who are fluent in Arabic. This when even Secretary of State Condoleeza Rice recently acknowledged the nation's "foreign language deficit" and how much our government needs Farsi and Arabic speakers. Is there a "straight" way to translate Arabic? Is there a "gay" Farsi? My God, we'd better start talking sense before it is too late. . . .

 

. . .

To fill its needs, the Army is granting a record number of "moral waivers," allowing even felons to enlist. Yet we turn away patriotic gay and lesbian citizens.

 

Peter Pace would rather recruit criminals who would otherwise be sitting in prison than retain highly qualified-even indispensable-LGBT personnel under his command. You can call that General Pace's religion or his personal opinion. You can even call it love if you have the nerve, but it's hatred all the same.

Pace's bigotry has proved somewhat awkward, since it lays him open, at the very least, to charges of serious managerial incompetence, but it's exactly the kind of divisiveness the rightwing political blogosphere glories in. Consider, for example, this posting by Mike Adams on Townhall.com, regarding the suggestion that, as with the n word, only gay people can use the word faggot without giving offense:

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Patricia Goldsmith is a member of Long Island Media Watch, a grassroots free media and democracy watchdog group. She can be reached at plgoldsmith@optonline.net.

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I don't trust my government.

I believe my government uses and abuses me. I see myself as nothing more than an American corporate slave. I slave to make ends meet and my government does nothing to help me. Instead they make policies that work against me, that hurt me and drive me deeper into poverty.

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Wayne OsborneI don't trust my government.

I believe my government uses and abuses me. I see myself as nothing more than an American corporate slave. I slave to make ends meet and my government does nothing to help me. Instead they make policies that work against me, that hurt me and drive me deeper into poverty.

Tyrants run the business world and I am convinced that Business as a whole is an evil wicked abomination. The ideology that profit is sacred is vile and disgusting. We wer...

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A Sincere Thank You

Thank you so much for your article. I am surprised to not see any other comments on your article. Actually I'm disappointed because I thought that at least on this site there would be support for those of us that are abused and discriminated against by our government. I guess the only topics that initiate a response are the ones on Iraq and anti-republicanism. But, coming from a gay man who has experienced the right-wing hate first hand, I am very appreciative of your article. So Thank You and a big hug.

by Wayne Osborne (0 articles, 0 quicklinks, 0 diaries, 5 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 10:43:02 AM
 


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Do you think being gay is a choice or something one inherits?

by Bob Gormley (1 articles, 0 quicklinks, 3 diaries, 909 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 10:57:17 AM
 


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It doesnt matter. Join PFLAG

would you feel more justified in hating if it was a choice?

I can speak for gays and lesbians on this even though I am straight. I didnt choose being straight. I cannot even contemplate sex with another man. How could I choose to be gay? I simply couldnt. If someone is gay, how could it be a choice/preference/whatever term du jour? Could you choose to be other than what you are?

My advice to my fellow straights is to join PFLAG. Swell the ranks of PFLAG to the point where the support for equality and against hate becomes impossible to ignore.

by Steven Leser (193 articles, 37 quicklinks, 32 diaries, 1298 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 11:48:09 AM
 


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Hate

I don't hate gays.

I'm just trying to figure out why people are gay.

 

by Bob Gormley (1 articles, 0 quicklinks, 3 diaries, 909 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 11:55:31 AM
 


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Do you think this is the common situation among gays?

ie knowing they were gay early in life

by Bob Gormley (1 articles, 0 quicklinks, 3 diaries, 909 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 12:42:10 PM
 


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Patricia GoldsmithPatricia Goldsmith is a member of Long Island Media Watch, a grassroots free media and democracy watchdog group. She can be reached at plgoldsmith@optonline.net.

Yes

It's true for most of the gay people I know, although there are some who only realize later in life--but I'm not sure what that means. Scientists seem to think there's a genetic predisposition. It's definitely not something you can alter later in life.  In fact there's a fundamentalist--his name is Al Mohler, I think--who's now saying that if gayness is genetic, he would be in favor of in utero treatments to eradicate it.  Not abortion, mind you, but some genetic treatment.  In his view, even if it is genetic, the fundamentalist position doesn't change one jot.  This has not been well received by other fundies.

by Patricia Goldsmith (26 articles, 0 quicklinks, 0 diaries, 16 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 1:29:49 PM
 


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OK

Thanks for answering.

     Do you think people can "turn gay" because of environment?

For instance, could a young man turn gay because he never received

love from his father, and somehow he compensates for this by having a

male as a gay friend.

     My experience shows 2 trends. One as you said before about knowing

at a young age. And two when one doesn't get the love they need

in the home environment.

by Bob Gormley (1 articles, 0 quicklinks, 3 diaries, 909 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 2:20:37 PM
 


Patricia Goldsmith is a member of Long Island Media Watch, a grassroots free media and democracy watchdog group. She can be reached at plgoldsmith@optonline.net.
Patricia GoldsmithPatricia Goldsmith is a member of Long Island Media Watch, a grassroots free media and democracy watchdog group. She can be reached at plgoldsmith@optonline.net.

I couldn't say

with any certainty.  However, it seems possible to me that the lack of love could come because the child is gay rather than causing them to be gay, particularly when we're talking about gay boys and their fathers.

by Patricia Goldsmith (26 articles, 0 quicklinks, 0 diaries, 16 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 3:01:43 PM
 


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Equality is a Key

I assume that gay people as all the people  need neither special love or hate- they just need to feel equal in all the  functions of the humans, including all the basic activiities to earn a living. I think, also that the  issue of ' gay rights' is manufactured because it  separates gay people from all other humans and  in reality  those are  human rights we talk about.  It is like ' immigrants rights'. When a person on the street is asked if he/she  would be for or against the  'gay rights', that is already a bigotry because that person  is presumed to be able  and have a special right to ifluence a deccision about other people's livelyhood That is  bizarre and is done deliberately.  It is also instigated by a religious fervor while in reality, as in most cases, religion has nothing to do with it.

There could  be opinions, individual ones on the issue of children, service, etc. But no matter what our preferences are   none of us has the right to consider  himself or herself superior to other human beings just because he/she   does not do something. I would deport  Hef and import a regiment of gays if I only could and of, course, if they wanted to.

 

by Mark Sashine (46 articles, 19 quicklinks, 235 diaries, 3359 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 1:34:40 PM
 


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When I was in Grad school...

When I was in Grad school, studying, among other things anthroplology as a stepping stone to theology, it seemed to me that the evidence was slowly mounting on the side of a genetic differential: Similar brain structure between male Homosexuals and females and other biological hints. Now the evidence seems much stronger that sexual orientation is a biological thing. The degree of outward manifestatio- plainly visible physical sexual closeness to the female gender (in males, I've seen little data on feamles but beleive it to be no different) seems to depend on (in layman's terms) the degree of female-tending genetic material (Simon Lavaye and. Dean H. Mamer, among others, re: Gorski Re: medial Preoptive seem to be on the verge of a breakthrough in this area, studying brain similarities between male HS and female brain structure. in Male brains the factor INAH3 was twice as large in males as in women 2-3 times as large as that of Homosexual males. there is a great deal more to this and other studies but hard to put into layman's terms, check the studies out for yourself. This was not my area of interst in, or since Grad scholl so my knowledge of it is sparse.

When it the evidence is all in, the "Christian Right," Upon seeing that God/Nature made this a biological, not choice, as they seem to prefer (they always want to have a reason to punish everyone but themselves) they won't just have egg on their faces their faces, it will be quiche and omlets galore, their religion will be thunderstruck. God loves, as Einstein said, paradox and irony and He never shoots dice with the universe.

by Professor Emeritus Peter Bagnolo (144 articles, 1 quicklinks, 95 diaries, 1310 comments) on Monday, April 2, 2007 at 4:08:20 PM
 


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OK

Thanks for your input.

by Bob Gormley (1 articles, 0 quicklinks, 3 diaries, 909 comments) on Tuesday, April 3, 2007 at 8:37:49 AM
 


I don't trust my government.

I believe my government uses and abuses me. I see myself as nothing more than an American corporate slave. I slave to make ends meet and my government does nothing to help me. Instead they make policies that work against me, that hurt me and drive me deeper into poverty.

Tyrants run the business world and I am convinced that Business as a whole is an evil wicked abomination. The ideology that profit is sacred is vile and disgusting. We wer...

to see more of bio, click on member name

Wayne OsborneI don't trust my government.

I believe my government uses and abuses me. I see myself as nothing more than an American corporate slave. I slave to make ends meet and my government does nothing to help me. Instead they make policies that work against me, that hurt me and drive me deeper into poverty.

Tyrants run the business world and I am convinced that Business as a whole is an evil wicked abomination. The ideology that profit is sacred is vile and disgusting. We wer...

to see more of bio, click on member name

Response to gormley

I posted the first comment on this article and then you posted right after me. I assume you were asking me the question, “Do you think being gay is a choice or something one inherits?”

 

I have to say “inherits”. I did NOT choose to be gay. Gayness with thrust upon me as much as my freckles and red hair were thrust upon me. I have always been terrified of a sexual act with a female. To me it was just wrong. I was only attracted to nice looking older men. A man would turn my head, a woman would not.

 

I wrestled with my gayness for many years, being brought up in a fundamentalist Baptist church; naturally I was taught that gays were an abomination and on their way to hell fire and brimstone. I carried a lot of baggage with me for a long time. But, then I met some people that really cleared up the whole issue.

 

I met a man who had fathered children, so all of his working parts actually worked, but when his abdomen was medical scanned he found out that he had a set of ovaries. They were non-functioning for egg production, but were functioning for certain female hormones. He was a man with female organs. In that discovery he had found peace with himself, because he had always wondered why he had female tendencies. Now he knew!

 

I then met a hermaphrodite (one with both sets of genitalia). That brought on real revelation for me. With the meeting of these two individuals the light came on. I no longer considered myself a freak or an abomination. The area of human sexuality is an extremely gray area; there are NO black and white issues here. If nature can create a human with both sets of human genitalia, it can sure create people where one may look like a man, but everything in the brain is a woman and vice versa for women where everything in the brain is a man. And the degrees for these mixtures are as wide as it is from east to west.

 

People will hate others for any number of reasons, whether they are different from them in some way or even if they are alike some ways. People will hate each other. One might as well hate me for my red hair and freckles as hate me for being a homosexual. I can’t change any of them.

 

But I do expect to have equal rights in the United States, because I am guaranteed those rights through MY constitution. And I have a right to marry anyone I see fit and should have equal rights with a same sex partner. And I have a right to hold a job, any job, even a high ranking government job with national security interests. I am not a risk because I am gay; I am an asset because I am gay. Because as a gay man I have dealt with hatred all of my life and I know what I have to do to secure myself. I am certainly going to do everything in my power to make sure that my country is protected from those that hate all of us.

 

That is why I liked this article so well.

 

Thank you again Patricia Goldsmith

by Wayne Osborne (0 articles, 0 quicklinks, 0 diaries, 5 comments) on Tuesday, April 3, 2007 at 10:29:20 PM
 


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Hi

Hi,

    Thanks for commenting. I can feel your pain.

I'm a professing Christian and know all about what the Bible says.

I was very strict with  the interpretation for some time, but my view on

it has softened somewhat.

          It does seem that homosexuality has a genetic component. Especially

with standout examples such as the man born with ovaries, etc.

         I do believe it is wrong, however, if one's homosexuality is not based

on genetics. It is impossible to know.... only God knows.

Bob

P.S. The Baptist church professes knowlegde of the Bible, but I recently

left one because of policies which were so anti-Christiian in my view....

ie war, salvation (OSAS), etc.

by Bob Gormley (1 articles, 0 quicklinks, 3 diaries, 909 comments) on Wednesday, April 4, 2007 at 11:12:59 AM
 

 

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