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May 10, 2010

One's Own Reputation

By Doug Soderstrom

One's reputation. For many of you, one of your most important possessions. But I say flush it down the drain with the rest of your possessins, because it won't do you a damn bit of good when you die!

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My reputation,
Your reputation,
Our reputation.

Nothing more than,
A rather random,
Assortment of,
Projections,
Misinterpretations,
Baseless rumors,
False ascriptions,
Of folks who,
For the most part,
Don't give a rat's damn,
If we live,
Or die.

Long gone,
Thoughts,
Memories,
About who,
They believe,
Us to be.

And then,
Some say that,
A good reputation,
Is a man's best friend,
No doubt,
His most valuable asset.

But,
To all of this,
I say,
Bullshit!

A man's reputation is,
Nothing more than,
An assemblage of errors,
Some skewed positively,
By those,
We happen to call our friends,
Others skewed negatively,
By those who likely despise us.

But really now,
Does such a thing matter,
I mean,
Does it matter at all?

Well of course,
It matters,
If one happens to be,
Interested in,
Keeping a job,
Being invited to a party,
Getting elected to political office,
Receiving an invitation to join,
The local country club,
The Daughters of the American Revolution,
Or even the Rotary Club.

On the other hand,
Can you imagine,
Leo Tolstoy,
Mohandas Gandhi,
Eugene V. Debs,
Martin Luther King, Jr.,
Mother Teresa,
Or even Jesus Christ,
Losing a night's sleep,
Concerning their reputation?

Perhaps the world,
Would be a bit better off,
If we,
As human beings,
Cared a bit more about,
The kind of human being,
We have chosen to be,
Rather than what others,
Think about us.

If we would,
Have been willing,
To have devoted our lives to,
Things that count,
A sincere search for truth,
The struggle for peace and justice,
A compassionate concern,
For the poorest of the poor.

Rather than,
Having allowed ourselves,
To have become,
So terribly preoccupied,
Pretentiously gripped,
By the,
Fecklessly fickle,
Imaginations of folks,
Who may well,
Not miss,
A step,
Nor even,
An hour's worth of sleep,
The very day we die!



Authors Bio:

Doug Soderstrom is a retired Professor of Psychology having taught for forty-two years at the college level. He was a columnist for the Populist Party of America (www.populistamerica.com/now discontinued) and has been a feature writer for www.iranian.com. His main interest at the present time is in writing poetry, and is in the process of gathering together somewhere around 700 poems that he has written over the past fifteen years, and will be publishing a book entitled "Loose Cannon Parables" if he can find a publisher willing to take on the job of publishing his book of poems.


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