79 online
Most Popular Choices
Share on Facebook 12 Printer Friendly Page More Sharing
Life Arts   

Review of the ARC COPY of The Importance of Civility

By       (Page 1 of 1 pages)   No comments
Message Norm Goldman
Author: T.S. Bogorad
ISBN: 1-4259-5893-1: 1-4259-5894-X

The central themes of T.S. Bogorad's, The Importance of Civility, are succinctly summed up in the book's introduction wherein it is stated: "what we don't say may hurt us and our community, and our polite interaction with others strengthens us and our community."

Bogorad observes that the assets of our communities suffer and may even deteriorate when we fail to socially interact. Consequently, we must modify our perspectives pertaining to our need of community, our need for civility and our need for each other. As the author points out, this can only come about if we understand how important it is to contribute to our communities through the use of smiles and courtesies, fostering social interaction and discouraging isolation, reducing victimization, increasing our listening and our laughter skills, and encouraging "other awareness" through civil/courteous/polite conduct. We also must become aware of the significance of sharing responsibilities associated with our communities through cooperation and communication. As mentioned, "when we isolate ourselves from our community or when we reduce the number of social interactions, our lack of social interactions diminishes our community's social capital." In the absence of effective and constructive social interactions, members of a community tend to look to other forms of self-satisfaction such as alcohol, gambling, and random shopping.

The informative quality of Bogorad's writing does more than explain the importance of civility and without doubt the information contained will provoke a great deal of substantive thought. In fact, Bogorad helps us along by providing us at the conclusion of each chapter brief sentences reminding us of the important principles expounded upon as well as various dictums and proverbs to ponder about.

Neatly divided into seven sections, The Importance of Civility sets out to present a complex subject matter in an accessible, reader-friendly format by analyzing and dissecting such topics as social isolation and how to avoid it, importance of the community and its weaknesses, social interaction and its importance, the necessity of social capital, strategies for and concerns about effective social interaction which involve our choices, charm, and chutzpah, problems associated with social interaction, and small changes we should pursue that can lead to unbelievable results. As an example of small changes, Bogorad reminds us when Rosa Parks changed her seat in a bus and others supported her, the civil rights movement was ignited.

One of the author's more interesting discussions pertains to the concept of social cannibalism which exists as a result of the ever growing absence of social interactions and the simultaneous increase in the number of socially isolated people. The resulting effect is the erosion of our communities in a number of ways such as turning victims into abusers in order that they may feel power or by permitting bystanders to watch cheating, corruption and abuse without accountability for their failure to protect the community and its members.

Presenting big ideas or universal themes is always a challenge and one of the keys to effectively presenting your case is convincing the reader that what you are writing about has been firmly grounded in research. Bogorad passes the test with flying colors with her sheer depth of research as evidenced by the extensive endnotes and bibliography that back up her findings and that focus beyond her own personal perspectives. In addition, she has effectively captured this elusive subject in a way that readers are inspired with the confidence that Bogorad feels the truth of her convictions, physically, emotionally and spiritually.

Books that encourage strengthening our communities are always welcomed particularly in times when we seem to be leaning more towards encouraging individualism rather than social interaction. The Importance of Civility presents us with an amazing opportunity for enlightenment wherein most readers will likely emerge better informed and perhaps curiously changed.
Rate It | View Ratings

Norm Goldman Social Media Pages: Facebook page url on login Profile not filled in       Twitter page url on login Profile not filled in       Linkedin page url on login Profile not filled in       Instagram page url on login Profile not filled in

Norm Goldman is the Editor of the book reviewing and author interviewing site, bookpleasures.com. He is also the Editor of the travel site, sketchandtravel.com, where his artist wife, Lily and Norm meld words with art focusing on romantic (more...)
Go To Commenting
The views expressed herein are the sole responsibility of the author and do not necessarily reflect those of this website or its editors.
Writers Guidelines

Contact AuthorContact Author Contact EditorContact Editor Author PageView Authors' Articles
Support OpEdNews

OpEdNews depends upon can't survive without your help.

If you value this article and the work of OpEdNews, please either Donate or Purchase a premium membership.

If you've enjoyed this, sign up for our daily or weekly newsletter to get lots of great progressive content.
Daily Weekly     OpEd News Newsletter
   (Opens new browser window)

Most Popular Articles by this Author:     (View All Most Popular Articles by this Author)

Award Winning author, journalist and humorist, Burton H. Wolfe is Interviewed

Review: Blow The House Down

Review: The Science of Disorder: Understanding the Complexity, Uncertainty, and Pollution of Our World

Review: Woodward And Bernstein: Life In The Shadow Of Watergate

Review: America's Secret War: Inside The Hidden Worldwide Struggle Between America And Its Enemies


To View Comments or Join the Conversation:

Tell A Friend