In a recent appearance on the popular Television
program The
View, host Whoopie Goldberg questioned Ann Romney regarding her
"qualifications," should she become
First Lady, for consoling the bereaved family members of the fallen given that
her husband never served in the military but, rather, spent the Vietnam War as a
Mormon Missionary in France. In response, Mrs. Romney equated Mormon missionary
work to military service. Though I would imagine there to be some risk in
proselytizing about one's beliefs, I doubt that many Mormon missionaries have
been killed, or injured, or suffer from PTSD, are homeless, drug and alcohol
addicted, or have committed suicide as a result of their missionary "service."
While Mrs. Romney's response was less than credible, I must point out that President
Obama has not served in the military, nor has George W. Bush (desertion is not
service), or Ronald Reagan (making propaganda movies is not service). Nor has
(or will) any of their children. But yet, this fact did not hinder them from sending
thousands of other Americans, and the children of other Americans, to kill and
be killed in unnecessary wars. So whose "crime" is worse? Obama's, Bush's, and
Reagan's who have the blood of thousands on their hands (if not on their
consciences) or Romney who fled to Paris to avoid fighting in Vietnam?
What Ms. Goldberg failed to realize,
given the gist of her question, is that the "problem" Ann Romney would face
were she to become First Lady in regard to the parents and loved ones of slain American
service men and women (interestingly, no First Lady or any other American politician
for that matter feels the need to comfort the parents and loved ones of slain
Afghans), is no different from the problem faced by Michelle Obama, or Laura
Bush, or Nancy Reagan and it has nothing to do with whether their husbands
served or avoided military service. Rather, it is the problem of attempting to
console the inconsolable; the problem of looking into the faces of devastated
men, women, and children and of fabricating a justification for what she knows,
or should know, to be policy of imperialism, militarism, and war that entailed the
criminal slaughter of their children, husbands, wives, and parents. It is the
problem of ignoring her husbands' culpability in these needless deaths; and the
problem of feigning sincere concern and empathy while spouting meaningless
rhetoric about freedom, national defense, and gratitude for their sacrifice. Such
pretense, in my view, requires a profound callousness and insensitivity to the
pain and suffering of other human beings. So perhaps Ms. Goldberg need not
worry should Mitt Romney become President as, judging from what I've seen of
Ann Romney, I believe she possesses the ability to play the role and accomplish
this task as successfully and as convincingly as have Michelle, Laura, and
Nancy.
Camillo "Mac" Bica, Ph.D., is a professor of philosophy at the School of Visual Arts in New York City, a long-time activist for peace and justice, a member of the Vietnam Veterans Against the War, and the coordinator of the Long Island Chapter of Veterans for Peace. His books include "Beyond PTSD: The Moral (more...)