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Sex Still Repels Many

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Pope John Paul II decreed that unmarried sex, contraception and the like are "evil.''

Iran's parliament drafted a law to execute repeat sellers of sexual photos.

The Bluefield Daily Telegraph destroyed 28,000 copies of its USA Weekend national magazine because a carrot in a photo looked phallic. Editors wrote that the carrot "violates this newspaper's family standards.''

Some fundamentalists want to make sure that sex education classes in schools don't teach about sex -- only about abstaining from it.

A local Christian school barred a pregnant girl from this year's graduation ceremony.

And North Carolina's 1.2 million Southern Baptists turned off their TV sets for a day to protest "moral depravity'' in shows such as NYPD Blue, which contains partial nudity and sex.

Obviously, sex still repels many, many people.

Despite all the changes wrought by the 30-year "sexual revolution'' -- millions of unwed couples living together openly, nude lovemaking in most R-rated movies, romantic-looking condom displays in every pharmacy, sex features in every woman's magazine -- the old taboos remain powerful.

America has a split personality -- relishing sex and condemning it. Our society is a stew of prurience and prudery. We're obsessed with sex and ashamed of it.

I guess that's why the national media went ballistic over a claim by two Arkansas troopers that President Bill Clinton had lovers while he was governor of Arkansas.

One of Clinton's political enemies fed the tale to a right-wing magazine -- and also to Cable News Network, saying he "needed the national TV hammer.'' Soon it was blaring on NBC Nightly News, Nightline and everywhere. A magazine writer went on C-Span with innuendos that Hillary Clinton once hugged Vince Foster, the Clinton family friend who later committed suicide.

The troopers making the accusation both acknowledged they had committed adultery -- yet they felt compelled to warn America that Clinton was like them. "I thought the American people ought to know this man,'' said one trooper -- who admitted that his wife divorced him because of his extramarital affairs. The other trooper's ex-wife accused him of beating her.

Frankly, I thought the news furor was disgusting. I was ashamed of my trade. It seemed like salacious lip-smacking -- which occurs only because of the taboo that makes sex "dirty.'' The episode turned us news people into bedroom-peepers.

I don't know whether Bill Clinton had lovers, and don't care. His sex life is none of the public's business. A president has more vital responsibilities than serving as a target for smutty speculation.

As historian Arthur Schlesinger remarked when the Clinton smears began: "Criticism on the issues is fine, but criticism of alleged personal conduct is nonsense. I'm told that Pol Pot was never once unfaithful to his wife, but murdered millions of his countrymen.''

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James A. Haught is editor emeritus of West Virginia's largest newspaper, The Charleston Gazette-Mail.  Mr. Haught has won two dozen national news writing awards. He has written 12 books and hundreds of magazine essays and blog posts. Around 450 of his essays are online. He is a senior editor of Free Inquiry magazine, a weekly blogger at Daylight Atheism, (more...)

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