ISBN: 1-4259-5893-1: 1-4259-5894-X
The central themes of T.S. Bogorad's, The Importance of Civility, are succinctly summed up in the book's introduction wherein it is stated: "what we don't say may hurt us and our community, and our polite interaction with others strengthens us and our community."
The informative quality of Bogorad's writing does more than explain the importance of civility and without doubt the information contained will provoke a great deal of substantive thought. In fact, Bogorad helps us along by providing us at the conclusion of each chapter brief sentences reminding us of the important principles expounded upon as well as various dictums and proverbs to ponder about.
Neatly divided into seven sections, The Importance of Civility sets out to present a complex subject matter in an accessible, reader-friendly format by analyzing and dissecting such topics as social isolation and how to avoid it, importance of the community and its weaknesses, social interaction and its importance, the necessity of social capital, strategies for and concerns about effective social interaction which involve our choices, charm, and chutzpah, problems associated with social interaction, and small changes we should pursue that can lead to unbelievable results. As an example of small changes, Bogorad reminds us when Rosa Parks changed her seat in a bus and others supported her, the civil rights movement was ignited.
One of the author's more interesting discussions pertains to the concept of social cannibalism which exists as a result of the ever growing absence of social interactions and the simultaneous increase in the number of socially isolated people. The resulting effect is the erosion of our communities in a number of ways such as turning victims into abusers in order that they may feel power or by permitting bystanders to watch cheating, corruption and abuse without accountability for their failure to protect the community and its members.
Books that encourage strengthening our communities are always welcomed particularly in times when we seem to be leaning more towards encouraging individualism rather than social interaction. The Importance of Civility presents us with an amazing opportunity for enlightenment wherein most readers will likely emerge better informed and perhaps curiously changed.