In 1764 an Italian nobleman named Cesare Beccaria wrote, "If we glance at the pages of history, we will find that laws, which surely are or ought to be compacts of free men, have been for the most part, a mere tool for the passions of some."
Unfortunately, the religious right has used the referendum petition process in 31 states to turn our birth certificates of citizenship in to raffle tickets for discrimination where the prize is our continued lack of full equality and recognition of our birthright under the law. Our civil rights cause has been de-railed 31 times at the ballot box by the usual deception of biblically-deluded use of the prejudiced superstitions that gays recruit and stalk children and teenagers.
Not only are gays/lesbians still second-class taxpayers, all of the residents of those 31 states, regardless of sexual orientation, are also honorary members of the Mormon, Roman Catholic, and Southern Baptist denominations, to name only three of the biggest religious oppressors in the USA. I say this because its the oppressor's anti-gay religious POVs that have become encoded into civil law. The United Church of Christ (UCC), Unitarian, and Reform Judaism adherents have passed guidelines allowing their clergy to perform their own versions of same-gender marriage without recognition from the resident state. Their First Amendment religious freedom is blocked by the actions and money of the theocrats whose dogma trumps all attempts at fairness and fulfillment of our lives. Justice guaranteed by the Constitution is thwarted by ignorance and prejudice.
Since the ballot box/civil rights raffle processes is spent and flaccid, activists John Aravosis and Joe Sudbay are calling for a boycott or a withholding of contributions -- Don't Ask, Don't Give -- to the Democratic Party until we get the results they've promised us for years, like passage of employment protection (ENDA), removal of marriage discrimination (DOMA), and the privilege to serve in the military (DADT).
( http://bit.ly/pBUP1 and http://bit.ly/2LqEmc )
In our American two-party political system laws have been made as passionate tools to be used against us as Beccaria observed centuries ago.
The GOP couldn't care less if GLBTs lived or died. Did you see Mary Cheney at the October March on Washington? So that leaves the Democratic Party as the only game in town, politically speaking, and they think they have a monopoly on our affections but, with their repeated stalling and inaction on important gay issues, I'm through believing them. Remember, it took ELEVEN years for Congress to pass the Shepard/Byrd Hate Crimes Law, and only two months for Congress to pass the AMBER Alert in 2002. ( http://bit.ly/1Iv8Q0 )
The Victorian novelist George Meredith said, "It's a terrific decree in life that one must act who would prevail." If our GLBT cause is just, then we must act to accomplish it; no one will give it to us freely.
Until we have a sustained, visible, assertive--yet peaceful action--to justify our equality and citizenship, we gays/lesbians will continue to be looked at as just limp-wristed targets for abuse, politically and physically.