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Handshaking American Style with a Woman - A Soft Shake?

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Handshaking American Style with a Woman - A Soft Shake?


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The handshake around the world in Indonesia is making headlines because reportedly Government Minister Tifatul Sembiring was hesitant to shake First Lady Michelle Obama's hand because she is a woman. Video footage shows Mr. Sembiring using two hands when shaking Mrs. Obama's hand. Lot's of discussion has ensued -- but are things much different in America?

In an early manuscript for my new book, I described a "soft shake" some men extend to women that's strikingly similar to the one Mrs. Obama got. Here's what my informal survey of some men revealed: "he shakes a woman's hand more loosely than he does a man's, and then he puts his other hand on top to reinforce this "nicer" handshake." .

The question is just how prevalent is it in America that men extend handshakes reserved just for women. If you are a man, have you ever given the soft shake to a woman? If you are a woman have you ever received the soft shake from a man?

       22% from 4 votes  
       78% from 14 votes  

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DEA Special Agent in Charge (retired) June Werdlow Rogers (formerly June W. Stansbury) holds a Ph.D. in Criminal Justice and Criminology earned at the University of Maryland. She has 28 years of law enforcement experience from 3 different agencies (more...)
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I am a man and I NEVER give a hard shake to a woma... by Mark Sashine on Thursday, Nov 11, 2010 at 4:10:21 PM
It makes no difference, I adapt and return the pre... by Dave Kisor on Thursday, Nov 11, 2010 at 10:32:09 PM
shake hands is a carry over from the days when suc... by Archie on Friday, Nov 12, 2010 at 6:36:54 AM
it would all depend on different factors - I have ... by Doc McCoy on Monday, Nov 15, 2010 at 7:33:37 AM
Yes I give women a soft shake, but only because I ... by Dar Gary on Saturday, Nov 27, 2010 at 2:25:42 AM
In transition over ten years. I've yet to be shown... by Sharon M on Saturday, Jun 18, 2011 at 3:47:03 PM

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