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Yesterday the world was agog with the vitriolic attacks by Lynn
Cheney on the honor and the goodness of John Kerry for his reference
to the homosexuality of her daughter, Mary, in response to the
question by Bob Scheiffer at the final Presidential debate.
Tongues are wagging and heads are bobbing in contemplation of her
angry comment that "This is NOT a good man!" Say what? The
fact that Mary Cheney is a Lesbian came as no shock to anyone but has
been common knowledge for a very long time. Miss Cheney has been seen
at public functions accompanied by her "friend" and she is
active in her father's campaign. Recently, the vice-President was
questioned about his support for a Constitutional amendment to outlaw
gay marriage and he explained his reason for differing from the
President on the matter as being his parentage of a gay daughter.
Some years ago, Mary's Lesbianism was a well-kept "family
secret". At the beginning of the 2000 election campaign, Mrs.
Cheney was questioned about her daughter's sexual preference and she
"whiffed" it, changing the subject and not giving a straight
answer but stating, "I love both my daughters. However, politics
being a difficult situation in which to keep secrets buried, Mary was
totally "outed". We have no way to know whether this
publicity caused the young lady any injury or hurt feelings but the
family knew it was a strong possibility before her father entered into
the fray of electioneering. However, any damage has not been apparent
to the public eye. She is a highly-educated, exceptionally competent
young person who is well equipped to make her own decisions and to
lead a happy and productive life.
This outburst by Lynn Cheney would not have created this uproar if
it were not for the fact that it is the Republican Party which has
made an issue of homosexuality in pandering to the "religious
right" by condemning these people in terms ranging from "an
abberration" to the statement of Allen Keyes that Mary Cheney,
specifically, is a "selfish hedonist". It is also the
Republican Party that is up in arms at the prospect of state laws that
would permit gay marriage.
The attitude of the Democratic Party has been one of acceptance and
willingness to apply the equal rights for which our nation has been
known to all people without regard for their race, religion, sex or
sexual preference. The remarks of Mr. Kerry were not derogatory but
were stated as an indication of approval of her value as a person. It
was President Bush who was at a loss for an intelligible response to
the question of whether gay people have chosen to be "that
way" or whether they were born "that way". It is the
strong suspicion that this is the fact that Lynn Cheney attempted to
obscure by her bitter attack on Mr. Kerry at the conclusion of the
debate.
The fact is that homosexuality is still a mystery to science. No
psychologist or physiologist has been able to determine the answer and
those people who are following whatever drive leads them into that
lifestyle appear to be as comfortable with their state as are those of
us who are heterosexual. The Evangelicals are convinced that it is a
mortal sin which they have made by choice and that if they cannot be
"converted" they must be constrained from acting upon what
appears to be their natural urge. The practical politicians see a lot
of votes out there and do not question, in general, the biological
reason for the culture.
Historically, the government has ignored the situation as societal
pressures have kept the conflict under control, but recently a great
deal of the population has begun to question the concept that there
anre some who "deserve" to be second-class citizens who have
no right to choose a life-mate in keeping with their emotions, to live
together openly without condemnation, to bestow rights of inheritance
upon that chosen partner, or to otherwise follow the practices that
heterosexual persons take for granted. It would seem that our children
who are compelled to follow that alternative lifestyle are as human as
we and should be as protected by our Constitution as the rest of us.
Mrs. Cheney should stand up for her daughter as being a whole,
competent person who happens to be gay instead of using her for
political capital or attempting to hide her as political liability.
She should applaud Senator Kerry for his acceptance and his reference
to her daughter as an example of the value of people who are
"different" and did not choose to be so. And she should be
willing to announce to the super-Christians that God made her that way
and they are wrong to question His wisdom. Unless and until she is
willing to openly and publicly support her daughter, she should go
back to soft-pedaling the situation and "whiffing" any
questions regarding this lovely person whom she has labored so long to
"protect" by denying her.