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Romney's Prep School Bully Portrait And Why "Dumb Things" Doesn't Wash: A Very Personal View.

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Fitting in by Dan Vojir

Perhaps it is Romney's youth that will finally belie the youthful Romney

There are certain things in a person's psyche that are harder to change than others . A feeling of superiority is one of them. And when you are bred to believe that you are superior, that feeling is almost insurmountably hard to dislodge from your mind...and your soul.

I went to a Catholic boys college prep school, and although it was not exactly the image of Pencey Prep* because it was a commuter school, it was perhaps the most elitist school in the Chicagoland area. The most elitist, the most academic...and the most macho: from our first day of freshmen year we were referred by the priests/teachers as "men." Our football and swim teams were considered among the best in the country. So many of our "men" went to Notre Dame that my going to the University of Illinois was looked upon as a humiliating apostasy. Because of its proximity to Chicago, it was certainly an upper class school for sons of the Mafioso. And with its Dominican priests, it was strict and not for the faint of heart.

Being even slightly effeminate made for four difficult years. Four VERY difficult years, in fact.

Every morning that I knew that I would have a horrendous time in PE, I would upchuck breakfast. I was a "spaz". Some guys called me "Vo-Queer" instead of Vojir. I hung out with others like me - other guys who didn't completely fit in. We simply called ourselves "The Group" (before Mary McCarthy's book ever came out). By happenstance, we all came out of the closet in our mid-twenties**, but during our prep school years, we knew what "homosexuals" were, what they did sexually, and that they had relationships.

So perhaps the most disingenuous statement made by Mitt Romney after the appearance of   "Lord of the Shears"  is:

"I don't remember that incident," Romney told Kilmeade. "I tell you I certainly don't believe that I ... thought the fella was homosexual. That was the furthest thing from our minds back in the 1960s. So that was not the case.

He knew. He remembered ... and he knew. Bullies always remember their exploits: they brag about them enough to keep them fresh for a long while. They especially brag about their exploits in terms of sexuality: beating up fags is as much of a right of passage as having intercourse with members of the opposite sex. In extreme cases, sometimes sodomizing (gang-raping) an effeminate boy was also a right of passage. Showers and locker rooms were not always the safest places to be, especially if you had a limp wrist.

The Romney campaign has predictably back peddled with an "apology", claims of "change" and "dumb things." Supposedly we should all move on and look past it to a man who has a sterling character. But the portrait of Mitt Romney emerging as an insufferably arrogant, preppy kid is totally appropriate in a world that demands the birth certificate of the President.

Perhaps He's Just A Frustrated Hairdresser? by Mary McCurnin

The Bully Being Bullied

The timing of the expose couldn't have been more hazardous for the Romney campaign, coming at the heels of Romney's gay advisor Richard Grenell resigning from pressure from other bullies - the Christian Right. The boyhood "pranks" are explained away as simply the result of typical teenage angst, kind of like what waterboarding of detainees at Guantanamo is to   Ann Coultergeist . The irony of the Grenell affair is that some people are sounding like bullies themselves: admittedly, Bryan Fischer of the American Family Association does think much of a presidential candidate who will buckle   under "yokels"   like Bryan Fischer.

Another part of the portrait: some of today's bullies - the corporate kind - aren't  particularly   concerned about the very poor

During the past twenty years, Mitt Romney has not physically changed - his youthful visage and energy gave the Republican Party its JFK. The portrait of a man who's temples are grey contrasting to Obama's increasingly graying hair makes a difference in politics since so much of politics is based on appearance. But it's a portrait that may change regardless of Romney's appearance. The "Lord Of The Shears" affair may start to reveal a hidden portrait - one which may turn out more like the   Picture of Dorian Grey . How fitting that a story of Oscar Wilde - the most flamboyant man of his time - could serve as a metaphor for such a man.

*The school in J.D. Salinger's Catcher In The Rye.

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Rev. Dan Vojir is has been writing/blogging on religion and politics for the better part of ten years. A former radio talk show host (Strictly Books €" Talk America Radio Network) and book publisher, Dan has connected with some of the most (more...)

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but not for a long while. We can only hope. ... by Rev. Dan Vojir on Friday, May 11, 2012 at 10:41:57 AM
Mitt's sh*t hit the proverbial fan.... by Rev. Dan Vojir on Friday, May 11, 2012 at 11:33:57 AM
Mitt's sh*t hit the proverbial fan.... by Rev. Dan Vojir on Friday, May 11, 2012 at 11:34:20 AM
If it is true that he doesn't recall his act of bu... by Philip Pease on Friday, May 11, 2012 at 1:02:42 PM
the behavior is one of a privileged person: Bush h... by Rev. Dan Vojir on Friday, May 11, 2012 at 2:33:56 PM
There is only on job opening at a time for the off... by Sherwin Steffin on Friday, May 11, 2012 at 6:52:09 PM
It could be that Romney misbehaved on occasion in ... by Natalie Oberman on Saturday, May 12, 2012 at 1:24:35 AM
unfortunately, I'm still not quite convinced that ... by Rev. Dan Vojir on Saturday, May 12, 2012 at 3:12:38 AM
It's a mistake to assume everyone is and always ha... by Natalie Oberman on Saturday, May 12, 2012 at 1:48:03 PM
Let's look at your points (which may be valid, but... by Rev. Dan Vojir on Saturday, May 12, 2012 at 2:56:50 PM
You are stating what you perceive to be "facts" wi... by Doc McCoy on Sunday, May 13, 2012 at 2:56:38 AM
Doc, did you and your fellow schoolboys know that ... by J. Edward Tremlett on Sunday, May 13, 2012 at 7:10:42 PM
that there were older men who would prey on young ... by Doc McCoy on Sunday, May 13, 2012 at 8:33:47 PM
That's not the story I got from the menfolks in my... by J. Edward Tremlett on Sunday, May 13, 2012 at 9:24:22 PM
"and, in the case of myself in the early 70s, and ... by J. Edward Tremlett on Sunday, May 13, 2012 at 7:14:50 PM
Okay, it was made in 1961. Close enough, though. ... by J. Edward Tremlett on Sunday, May 13, 2012 at 7:22:32 PM