Patriarchy Has Failed Us: Put Women in Charge!

Recently, Andrew Yang's podcast ("Andrew & Zach") had him and Zach Graumann discussing questions that should be of interest to everyone. They asked "Why are boys and men failing? Why so many weak men? Has women's liberation unwittingly rendered males insignificant? And if so, what to do about it?"

Well, I thought, I for one know what to do about it.

Simply admit the obvious. Men have failed through their own inadequacy. Their "leadership" at all levels has been a disaster. Let's face it: they've proven to be the weaker sex. In the aggregate, women and simply smarter and morally superior to men. So, as Keb Mo puts it, it's well past time to "Put A Woman in Charge."

Let me try to make that case here by applauding the points made by Yang and Graumann about recent revelations concerning the changed situation between the sexes. The podcast hosts got that part right. Their description of the diminished status of men and masculinity is also undeniable. It's simply a 21^st century fact. Finally, I'll suggest why I think Yang and Graumann's approach doesn't go far enough. Their concern to rehabilitate boys and men is misplaced. Instead, it's time for all of us to work openly towards a Great Reversal where women are actually in charge of our country and world.

Women's Superiority

To begin with, as Zach Graumann put it, women are proving smarter than men "across the board." He said, "Men and women are so different, and the numbers are screaming off the page." For instance:

• Girls do better than boys all the way through school not only in the United States but throughout the world.
• 58% of college graduates are women; 42% are men for whom admission standards are often "adjusted" to correct gender balance.
• Currently, there are more women graduating from STEM programs than ever before, as well as more women succeeding in sports.
• Their superior performance in those venues already equips them to replace men in leadership positions.
• Significantly in the context of the worldwide COVID pandemic, women also deal with "free time" (idleness?) more creatively than men. Men who are idle typically start gambling, drinking, and doing drugs. Generally, they become anti-social. "There's some part of each man," Graumann pointed out, "that simply wants to go down into the basement, play video games and avoid the world."
• Women, on the other hand, prove "more adaptable than men" as job circumstances change. When unemployed, they are more likely, for example to return to school, go to church, or volunteer at a non-profit.
• Women also show more wisdom in their tendencies to resist male corporate culture that places profits ahead of family welfare. Women are the ones most strongly pushing for generous programs of family leave. More than men, they also shy away from aberrations such as 80-hour workweeks as well as phone calls, texts, and e-mails outside of business hours because such practices interfere with family pursuits.
• As Yang pointed out, women also make men live longer. Statistically, unmarried men will die about a decade sooner than their married counterparts. But marriage has no effect at all on women's life spans.
• And finally (I would add) let's remember women don't do mass shootings and are far less likely to rape (Ghislaine Maxwell notwithstanding), or to torture or commit atrocities in war.

Despite those blaring facts, men continue to dominate world politics. Industries, governments, police forces, and the military nonetheless remain male dominated in their leadership.

Women, of course, are aware of this and point out the need for "more female CEOs, partners and board members."

Yang and Graumann agreed. But they also spent most of their discussion accounting for men's fall from grace and wondering about saving men from reduction to second class status.

Men's Failure Explained

As for explaining men's decline, the podcast hosts offered predominantly economic explanations. They pointed out that:

• Five million manufacturing jobs have been eliminated over the last 15-20 years.
• Three quarters of those jobs were held by men.
• According to Yahoo statistics, fully one-third of the male workforce is currently out of work or unemployed.
• Job loss of this magnitude has led to massive increases in alcoholism, substance abuse, suicides, and overall despair.
• Meanwhile women's ascendancy has reduced men's chances of assuming family leadership. Very often that's because, disparity in college graduation rates means that an increasing number of college- educated women have difficulty finding similarly prepared marriage partners. So, many female graduates choose not to marry at all. And if they decide to have children, they frequently do so out-of-wedlock. The resulting female headed households often leave their growing boys without strong male role models. This causes the vicious cycle to continue.
• Looking for explanations, disempowered men become susceptible to those offered by politicians and others who blame those with no responsibility at all such as immigrants, Muslims, liberals, and feminists.
• All of this has had political consequences. Vote totals from 2020 show that Donald Trump won the votes of 66% of non-college-educated male voters who constitute 31% of voters in general. (This group represents the core of Trump's base.)

A Pseudo-Solution

Despite their good intentions, the discussion between Yang and Graumann ended up sounding like many among liberal members of privileged classes whose hopelessly illusory goal is a "win/win" outcome where the oppressed class (in this case women) is able to advance without the privileged class (males) losing status or power.

The two hosts of "Andrew and Zach" even seemed to suggest that (while they considered themselves feminists) perhaps women should back off a little out of respect for men's hurt feelings.

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