How We Can Reclaim Control

The main thing keeping us from fixing our problems is our faulty assumption that it would be impossible or take too much effort.

We bite our tongues because we don't have quick and brilliant oratory skills, not knowing that studies show that we simply have to speak our minds to make a difference.

We assume that we don't have the necessary level of barroom-brawl type testosterone, forgetting that courage actually comes from the passion to protect something we love.

We assume that we are powerless, but we actually have the power (especially if we show up with a bunch of friends).

We keep our heads down and try not to rock the boat too much, not realizing that united we stand, protected.

We have lost all energy because we have lost hope, failing to see that hope is not an emotional mood that others give us, but fierce determination to make the world a saner place.

Deepak Chopra wrote a widely-read essay yesterday, saying:

The question of torture won't go away. It would be easier to talk about moving ahead... This is one of those moments when painful truth is the only way to heal...There are demons in the closet, and shutting the door on them won't make them go away. Better to deal with it now...Lay everything out, however painful. The aim should not be punishment but detoxification...Not only should the right wing and the war-makers tell the truth, but so should those politicians, including Democrats, who passively went along with what their conscience told them was dead wrong...Then let's see where the truth leads us...The road away from torture is the road back to America. Can we all agree on that?

In the past, the vast majority of Americans never wanted to bother learning much about where money comes from, how the banks operate, or the laws that govern the economic players. We assumed that someone - the Fed, the Treasury, the government, the SEC, someone - would keep a steady hand on the tiller and keep the big boys honest. As a New York Times Op-Ed said last year, "the delusional optimism of mainstream, all-American, positive thinking ... should get its share of the blame" for the financial crisis

Barbara Bush famously said about the Iraq war: "Why should I waste my beautiful mind on something like that?" Indeed, the classic image of our relationship as civilians to those in the military, special forces and clandestine intelligence forces is that patriotic "rough men" (using Tom Clancy's phrase) would do the necessary, unsavory things to keep us safe, and that we should not even ask - let alone question - what they do in our name.

What do all of these things have in common?

Our failure to face the shadow side of life has allowed unscrupulous characters to muck things up.

That's why we're in this mess: we haven't been willing to face the shadow side of things. We've wanted to keep our hands clean, and so we've let others do the dirty work.

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