It is moral courage makes the woman or man. Conversely, physical courage is quite common.
While he has never had the moral courage to take a stand against "might makes right" itself, the same man, raised never to restrain himself from resorting to force as a first, and only, option, still finds himself hailed a hero in an inversion of moral law.
And the woman with the courage to live outside the confines of the kitchen, the bedroom and the nursery still faces a lingering label of perversion, seen as usurping man's rightful place at the apex of the pyramid of oppression.
Woman or man, to take a stand outside the boundaries, to color outside the lines of the stick figure confines of the rigid roles prescribed for male and female inmates of capitalist culture's insane asylum runs the risk of committing cultural suicide.
Girly men. FemiNazis. Real men don't cry, have hearts or any emotions, while real women have been defined by only those obvious displays of devotion.
Lonely is the individual who dares to live as an outlaw outside the ordinary where character insists consistently on the courage to be contrary.
"It is curious - curious that physical courage should be so common in the world, and moral courage so rare." - Mark Twain
Vi's works appear widely both in print and online. She conducts Poetry Workshops and gives readings in Central New York. Her latest chapbook is "Sine Qua Non Antiques (an Arcanum of History, Geography and Treachery).