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May 24, 2008 at 20:02:32

Headlined on 5/24/08:
Some Parents of Vets Coming Home From Iraq & Afghanistan Forced to Give Up Retirement To Care For THeir Brave Offspring

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Why not require readings, like WHEN JOHNNY GOT HIS GONE or the biographical BORN ON THE 4TH OF JULY by Ron Kovic?

In other words, parents across America and on DOD bases around the globe need to demand a more balanced view of war in school than they are receiving now-from both social studies, history, and English courses.

ANOTHER AREA AMERICANS NEED TO EDUCATE BETTER IN

Obviously, another area where both parents and youth need to be educated is in the political economics of war.

The area of focus in political economy should be on families and the real costs to family and societies posed annually by the USAs dependence on the intelligence & defense industries in the USA--as well as posed by decisions made by & in life in America's DOD (Department of Defense).

There are now millions or even tens of millions of Americans who are rather directly dependent on the U.S. military- or intelligence communities for jobs for them--and salaries for their families.

There are even multi-generational military families across the continent (and stationed around the world), such as was the case for presidential candidate, John McCain, and his father's family. (This was also certainly true for Jim Morrison, a contemporary of young John McCain, and who was also the son of an admiral.)

This means that many Americans have grown up in a military muscle flapping world all their lives and think relatively little of it-until a loved one comes home in a box, severely traumatized, or is dismembered in war.

KNOWING SUCH MILITARY DEPENDENT FAMILIES

Many of you know the legacy of such military families. The image of them was tragically (and comically) portrayed by the Lt. Dan figure in the film, FORREST GUMP.

I know fairly well one such multigenerational military family who finally persuaded their son into finally signing up for a military career in the midst of 1990s. Let me explain, 8 years earlier that son had left the military family's base home in Georgia at 18 and had rebelled against signing up for the Army (and following the path of his parents),

They were able to do this within a year after the 1991 Gulf War because of the 1990-1992 recession. They also succeeded in persuading their rebellious son to join because of the cultural and educational contexts within which many Americans have been cocooned or embedded since WWII.

However, now with nearly 96 percent of those victims of war coming home alive from major theater hospitals in war zones this 2008, America's traditional military parents (and non-military families) of brave- and dependent- American soldiers stationed around the globe need to ponder the possibility that they will one day have to take care of their kids and their loved ones for years.

Let's count the costs Americans!

What kind of future do we want for ourselves and children?

The AARP article ends with a touching tale and photo of Marine Sergeant Shurvon Phillip and his mother, Gail Ulerie, 48. The author, Yeoman reveals, "Before he was injured in Al Anbar, Iraq, Marine Sergeant Shurvon Phillip told his mother, Gail Ulerie, 48, not to worry about his safety. 'Everything is gonna be all right, Ma,' he told her. 'I'm reading my Psalms.

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Margaret Bassett is an 86-year old, currently living in senior housing, with a lifelong interest in political conumbrums. She hopes to hold out for one more presidential election. Bachelors from State University of Iowa (1944) and Masters from Roosevelt University (1975) help to unravel important requirements for modern communication. Early introduction to computer science (1966) trumps them. It's payback time. She's been "entitled" so long she hopes to find some good coming off the keyboa...

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Margaret BassettMargaret Bassett is an 86-year old, currently living in senior housing, with a lifelong interest in political conumbrums. She hopes to hold out for one more presidential election. Bachelors from State University of Iowa (1944) and Masters from Roosevelt University (1975) help to unravel important requirements for modern communication. Early introduction to computer science (1966) trumps them. It's payback time. She's been "entitled" so long she hopes to find some good coming off the keyboa...

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This is so insightful, Kevin

In the election coming up, be it national or for a small local office, I believe every voter should gage his/her choice by how careful the candidate addresses generational issues. I say this because when economic times are tough, there is a necessity for those in trouble to turn to kinship.

As you describe, boys become soldiers when jobs and educational opportunites are slight. Even if they are not totally disabled they come back to less opportunities than they envisioned when they were recruited. Those who remain in service may also be trapped. It's the only employer who will give you a bonus before you've performed the service and then hound you to the ends of the earth if you try to quit.

Now it is certain that Americans have a big problem. Some want excellent medical insurance at minimal cost. Yet, philosophically, they must realize that it will come at the expense of exhorbitant outlays to make veterans half what they thought they would become.

So, I say again, it's time to ask candidates. "What is your platform for the returning fighting men and women?" Platform! Something to stand on. Not platitudes.

by Margaret Bassett (33 articles, 2024 quicklinks, 30 diaries, 1353 comments) on Saturday, May 24, 2008 at 8:19:04 PM

KEVIN STODA has been blessed to have either traveled in or worked in nearly 100 countries on five continents over the past two and a half decades. He sees himself as a peace educator and have been a promoter of good economic and social development--making him an enemy of my homelands humongous spending and its focus on using weapons to try and solve global issues."I am from Kansas so I also use the pseudonym 'Kansas' when I write and publish. I...

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ALONEKEVIN STODA has been blessed to have either traveled in or worked in nearly 100 countries on five continents over the past two and a half decades. He sees himself as a peace educator and have been a promoter of good economic and social development--making him an enemy of my homelands humongous spending and its focus on using weapons to try and solve global issues."I am from Kansas so I also use the pseudonym 'Kansas' when I write and publish. I...

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Thanks, we all need to put our time and efforts

Thanks, we all need to put our time and efforts (or money) where our hearts or brains are.

We can't get stuck in a rut, just be cynical and hopelessly throw up our hands.

America still has a lot of natural and human resources that could reinvent and transform the mess we are in. Moreover, spiritually many have the potential to use their lives and resources well through prayer and supporting others.

However, when we face walls, we sometimes play turtle (duck and cover) which psychologically we have been trained to do.

If it were easier to run for me to get on the ballot, I would be one of those active candidates and I would help put people to work building a better land--whether it be building better cities, transport networks, paying people (even if it is just a token like gas money vouchers) to take off work and visit the aging and injured, I would.

I would look for ways to have programs similar to the rural electrification project or great transport projects like huge trains that vehicle owners could drive quickly on and sit back and commune with other Americans in the train car while going from Athens, GA to Chicago, etc.

by ALONE (152 articles, 1 quicklinks, 4 diaries, 337 comments) on Saturday, May 24, 2008 at 9:50:22 PM

I am an old teacher who believes that if you are nice to people you make their life and your own much better.
vidiotI am an old teacher who believes that if you are nice to people you make their life and your own much better.

Stick the Yellow Ribbons up the you know where

I was drafted during the Vietnam War and was a medic in a medivac hospital in Japan. The wounds were horrific and I felt that someone in the military chain of command lied to us every single day. I felt that Veterans had not been treated very well in that war but compared to the way the Iraqi Vets have been treated, Vietnam veterans were Sultans......at least they didn't have a dysfunctional VA that was actively working against them, at least they had a real, rather than pretend GI Bill that allowed them to transition into the work force. We sometimes would have Congressmen who checked out the hospital to see what was going on (and in at least one case to visit his wounded son). I remember one Congressman actually came to the barracks where the medics were quartered and asked questions. When the 1st Sgt. tried to guide responses, the Congressman dismissed him and continued the discussion with us alone. As a young draftee, I felt that I was being screwed by the Army rather than my country. I doubt that Iraqi Vets can feel that way. The only historic parrallel I can think of with the treatment of today's vets was when the WWI veterans, known as the Bonus Marchers, demonstrated in Washington and were attacked and killed by troops commanded by Douglas MacArthur and a young captain named Eisenhower. I wish that Bush was out and that the war was over so that ordinary citizens could start doing right by our veterans, and start repairing all the other messes (way too long to list) that this administration has visited upon us.

by vidiot (0 articles, 0 quicklinks, 0 diaries, 247 comments) on Sunday, May 25, 2008 at 9:34:20 AM