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In Defense of Respect

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Main Entry: respect Function: transitive verb Date: 1560 1 a: to consider worthy of high regard : esteem b: to refrain from interfering with 2: to have reference to : concern

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There have been a number articles and entries on OpEdNews.com lately about the web site itself. While most of them discuss the content, its format, and enhancements, none have touched upon the fear, anger, and resentment espoused by authors and/or commenters. Understandably, these emotions are what provide the fire that motivates one to take action.

And yet, in excess these can also blind a person to the essence or truth of an object or issue. Additionally, such excesses can cloud one's judgment, which under "normal" circumstances, is sound and respectful of others. After all, are we not all equal before each other or so I've read here many times over?

However, those that embrace these qualities, instead of harnessing them to inspire, can quickly become consumed by them. Take for instance some of these quotes attributed recently to a new member on OpEdNews.com:

"I can't help it if you [an OEN editor] have literally no deductive reasoning skills, but the rest of us have grown tired of the obvious "page sanitizing" that shills [here] engage in."

"What rational person, who is secure in their belief that the official 9/11 conspiracy theory is in fact the truth, would honestly post over 1200 comments specific to the 9/11 truth movement?"

"[The shill] doesn't need to be defended by you [an OEN editor], he needs to be outed so he'll resurface once again under a new identity."

"Do I have to spell it out for you [an OEN editor] with a TV Short using clay-mation animals. Get it together man, and try to see the forest thru the trees."

Certainly, there is passion in the words, but respect for the forum moderator is sadly lacking. Some may argue that respect is immaterial when the issue is grave. I disagree. Such an approach is the start of a slippery slope that uses the absoluteness of a person as a means to justify a subjective end.

There's such a thing as commitment. Commitment without control, though, is nothing more than chaos: "a state of things in which chance is supreme" - http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/chaos . And with chance, one should always be careful of what they wish for because it might just come true.

Respect, or the act of giving particular attention or consideration, is reflective of a person who's willing, honest, and open-minded. Absence of it, and one should question critically the words of the disrespectful for their motives and expectations. Excess anger only leads to rage which is loss of self-control from violence of emotion.

And emotion is just another word for passion.

 

Back in the saddle again. In accordance with the new guidelines, I've dumped my infant pseudonym and have resumed the annoying name (to some members) of Tom Murphy. I have some catching up to do on the articles but look forward to playing (more...)
 

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Respect thanks you for your support Tom by Brett Paatsch on Thursday, Jul 10, 2008 at 11:47:03 PM
Well said. by Aurora on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 12:06:45 AM
clarifying something by Aurora on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 7:05:14 PM
to refrain from interfering with ? by Mark Sashine on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 8:13:28 AM
Respect, opnions, and emotions by Tom Murphy on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 9:54:56 AM
Ok, that was a good answer by Mark Sashine on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 11:40:45 AM
Respect for Fact? by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 4:24:35 PM
The UN? by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 4:46:30 PM
Thank You. by Richard Volaar on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 1:45:09 PM
danke schön by Tony Forest on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 3:15:40 PM
Here's the one million dollar question for Tom by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 4:35:38 PM
Here's the free of charge response by Tom Murphy on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 8:53:21 PM
"I'll first answer that with a question" by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 9:17:19 PM
Ask a silly question... by Tom Murphy on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 9:35:45 PM
The Ultimate Insult by aberamsay on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 5:10:55 PM
An honest rebuttal by Tom Murphy on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 8:33:43 PM
Tom just won't answer the question! by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 8:56:11 PM
I think we deny it because the official conspiracy theory by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 10:12:56 PM
And now... the rest of the story! by Tom Murphy on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 10:30:24 PM
What? by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 10:44:43 PM
I wouldn't waste by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 10:57:02 PM
Murphy's Glue...? by mikel paul on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 5:27:35 PM
Murphy's Oil Soap by Tom Murphy on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 9:11:41 PM
What a few months between aquaintances... by mikel paul on Saturday, Jul 12, 2008 at 2:03:16 PM
I, For Some Stupid Reason... by Richard Volaar on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 9:23:42 PM
I agree by Tom Murphy on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 9:38:32 PM
Of course it's not sufficient by Dave Rogers on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 10:33:20 PM
Excellent Kick In The Ass by aberamsay on Friday, Jul 11, 2008 at 11:51:36 PM
I want to take credit:) by Mark Sashine on Saturday, Jul 12, 2008 at 6:08:00 AM
feelin groovy by robert braunstein on Saturday, Jul 12, 2008 at 6:49:35 AM
U SURP by boomerang on Saturday, Jul 12, 2008 at 12:01:24 PM
I'm Not Sure You Do Agree, Tom... by Richard Volaar on Saturday, Jul 12, 2008 at 9:38:29 PM
Do You Believe In The Official Account Of 9/11 Massmurder? by aberamsay on Sunday, Jul 13, 2008 at 10:52:42 AM
See? by Richard Volaar on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 3:04:18 PM
Oh, yes! I have always seen... by Tom Murphy on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 9:45:03 PM
Poor investment by tim bristol on Saturday, Jul 12, 2008 at 10:41:21 PM
Tim.... by Dave Rogers on Sunday, Jul 13, 2008 at 2:16:22 PM
Illustrated by Boris by Alan Williams on Sunday, Jul 13, 2008 at 5:05:28 PM
It's good to see Al again by Dave Rogers on Sunday, Jul 13, 2008 at 8:51:13 PM
Shill's Clone Coming To The Rescue by aberamsay on Sunday, Jul 13, 2008 at 6:34:31 PM
Illustrated by ramsheyi by Alan Williams on Sunday, Jul 13, 2008 at 7:45:36 PM
Respect ? by Munich on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 2:33:12 AM
The List Of Eye Witnesses in Longer Than That by aberamsay on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 8:55:21 AM
*sighs and shakes his head* by Tom Murphy on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 11:58:49 AM
I Don't Get It... by Richard Volaar on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 3:37:31 PM
I get... most of it... by Tom Murphy on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 9:36:47 PM
Question... by Sheila Samples on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 11:55:12 AM
Believers by Tom Murphy on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 1:52:03 PM
I think Mr. Smith and Mr. Becker are the same person, by Dave Rogers on Tuesday, Jul 15, 2008 at 1:14:15 AM
I think we have all been missing a much more pressing by Dave Rogers on Tuesday, Jul 15, 2008 at 1:22:33 AM
Steel Buildings Don't Collapse From Fire by Munich on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 1:17:17 PM
Yet Another Eye-blink (YAEB) by Tom Murphy on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 8:28:35 PM
To: Sheile Re: Question.... by Alan Williams on Monday, Jul 14, 2008 at 2:25:45 PM
It's not right! by Munich on Tuesday, Jul 15, 2008 at 12:23:11 AM
It IS right! by Alan Williams on Tuesday, Jul 15, 2008 at 4:58:05 AM
You're letting your senses deceive you - yet again by Tom Murphy on Tuesday, Jul 15, 2008 at 9:18:41 AM
Re: It's not right by Munich on Tuesday, Jul 15, 2008 at 12:11:55 PM
I'll let it go when you do the same... by Tom Murphy on Tuesday, Jul 15, 2008 at 2:10:47 PM